Hello, I been trying to get feedback on this situation because I’m eventually going to sit her down and talk this out with her. Anyway, I met a girl near 3 or so weeks ago and right away I was crushing on her looks wise. We began getting to know each other over some time and eventually we both slept with each other amongst other things.
Now there is context that I was kind of traumatized from a previous relationship back in February and she just got out of one just very recently like a month ago. She is adamant that she needs time alone and doesn’t want a relationship right now because she wants to explore being single.
However, in typical fashion, we have both began developing crushes on each other and are really enjoying each others company. We both are very aware that the timing is absolutely horrible and now we’re both confused because neither of us had an intention but here we are.
We are quite similar in many ways and I really enjoy her company as she does mine. We’re going to be going on fun dates and we sleep together, but in a casual manner. She wants to explore and sleep with others. I don’t mind that and I have the same option but I don’t really entertain much right now.
She smiles at my texts now, which was probably her oh fuck moment, and I’ve had my oh fuck moment pretty recently too where I realized how much I liked this person. We talk all day now, our hangouts are smooth.
I want her to be my girlfriend someday. Honestly. She’s a wonderful person. I’m loving how I’m getting to know her. But she’s primarily not ready right now and I still have much work to do in therapy.
We’re keeping it simple and just going with the flow but it’s obvious both of us have come to the conclusion that we both are developing crushes on each other and it’s starting to make things fishy.
What do?. She deserves her freedom as she’s been in relationships for years prior and hasn’t had a chance to be single, but l then I came along and now I make it conflicting and confusing for her. It’s the same way with how she came along.
There’s probably like an 80% chance this absolutely backfires in tremendous fashion; but how do I go about this? I really think this girl is worth it; and even worth a broken heart for, should I tell her this?
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