Ok, story time... I've been going out with this girl I really like, ever since the first meet up over coffee, I had been trying to see if I could spot any signs that she was into me or that she was looking for something other than friendship with no success, eventually I couldn't take it anymore so on our third date last friday I confessed my feelings, and after a second of embaressment and shyness on her part she actually told that she likes me as well, we held hands and I asked her if I could kiss her, initially she got more embarassed and told me that her face was really cold but that we'd kiss next time. We've been texting almost every day since then, a couple of minutes ago I get a text from her saying that she's excited to see me... and here is where I think I came on too strong, I sent her a sticker of a cat getting teary eyes and then said, "Awww I'm excited to see you too😊, I wish we could see each other more 👉👈" after seeing the message she left me basically on read... And now I'm freaking out cause I think she's sensing that I'm really really into her, and although it might seem like a good thing I feel like I'm rushing things (I'm a pretty romantic guy and I keep fantasizing over her all the time) while she's taking things as they come (or at least that's what I'm seeing from her... I don't know, maybe she's just like me but a little more shy). Maybe this friday I'll get a better feeling of what her "speed" is..
I'd appreciate it if somebody could give me some advice on how to approach talking to her moving forward, I've trying to match her "energy" but I fail whenever she shows interest in me cause I then reply with stuff like the message above...
It's my very first relationship and I'm afraid I might jump the gun too soon and ruin my chances even before we start getting serious....
edit - just to give an idea of the sticker I sent to her https://i.ibb.co/sJwCHR7/image.png
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