Only recently started dating, she was kind of a friend of mine but not close. It became obvious fairly early that she wanted kids and a family/marriage. I do not want these things. We're both early 30s.
However, we enjoy each others company and want to keep spending time together. I have no issue with the boyfriend/girlfriend label, but without wanting a family it doesn't have a huge meaning for me.
We spoke about this fairly early. I made it clear to her I didn't want those things, as I didn't want to lead her on. I also said to her its probably best she look for someone who does if its important to her, and she's welcome to remain my friend. Neither of us seem to want that though.
I was just wondering, in this situation should you look to break it off? We've only been dating a few weeks so no issue. But I would feel awful if I delayed her finding what she wants? On the flip side, she had been single for quite some time and we both are having a good time.
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