I am 23 year old female who is currently in grad school for engineering. I recently came back home for thanksgiving to visit family and one of the most things they told me that I need to find someone to settle with eventually. My mom told me I better put myself out there more because my twenties will go by quick and “there will be no available guys to choose from.” I have enough stress in my life to begin with and now she’s suggesting me to go out and date asap or else I won’t be desirable anymore? Lately I have been feeling left out or alone, I don’t know if it’s because pretty all of the females in my family have settled down and I haven’t. My older sister has been dating someone for years she met in college but that wasn’t my experience. I don’t want to just go out and date just because I feel pressured to do so or “time will run out.” Dating has also been a touchy subject for me because I dealt with really shitty people in the past and my ex boyfriend was abusive towards me. In all, I’m not sure if I feel the urge to date and find someone cuz of the pressure of my family or if I truly want to.
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