Hi. Any wannabe psychologists wanna help me out? I’m a 20f who feels so incredibly lonely sometimes, but at the same time loves (and need) alone time. I’m quite social and don’t have a hard time with guys but I can’t get myself out there into the dating world. I just can’t. In theory I want someone to spend time with and honestly what I really crave is love and touch. But once I talk to a guy I find interesting and he suggests we should meet I get frozen- not by anxiety necessarily but I suddenly find what’s wrong with the guy. Stuff that I literally make up in my own head.
It’s like I’m a perfectionist when it comes to dating. It’s like I think the person I’m going on a date with has to be the love of my life; which is insane.
So to my question: How do I start seeing dating as something fun? And how do I stop being a perfectionist when it comes to guys I’m dating? (or well, not dating..) Does anyone know why I’m like this when the only thing I crave right now is someone to love?
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