The last couple years I’ve been in a bit of a pandemic slump and all my friends moved away so I was left with pretty much no friends. I’m slowly trying to get out there and make new friends, and through that I ended up meeting this girl who lives in my building since we both have puppies. She’s got her shit together wayyyy more than I do. Much more social and extroverted. Way more confident. Makes friends with everyone easily. She’s extremely gorgeous. Travels and seemingly does a bunch of cool shit. She just seems way out of my league and it’s holding me back from doing anything.
In trying to get back out there, I revamped my entire wardrobe, started working out again, doing more social activities, and took all new photos for online dating apps. I’ve been talking to more strangers and working on my social skills and confidence, but unfortunately the past year or so I’ve gotten nothing from the dating apps. I’ve tried to channel and display my better self, yet still no dates, very rare matches, and my profile ends up getting a terrible algorithm score and only shows me extremely unattractive women. It’s absolutely killed my self esteem that I’ve worked so hard to build up and has made me question how I could possibly ask this girl out if I can’t even get a single date from an app in an entire year despite taking a bunch of strides to improve myself.
How can I get over this? I know I’ll regret not asking this girl out but I’m 99% certain I’ll be rejected because of the aforementioned reasons nor do I even know if she’s single. I also don’t want to make things weird considering we’re somewhat neighbors. This is the only girl I’ve had this big of a crush on in ages.
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