I (38f) have been seeing this guy casually and he is nice and has some good qualities about him. However he has made bedroom comments while in the act if intercourse he will bring up fantasies. I am very vanilla and some of these topics he talks about turn me off. I did tell him I don't like the talking about it during sexy time but he continues to do it. One of the things he talks about is getting it on with another female (while I have told him I am not attracted to women he still says the things). And something he said was very off putting. "How would you like being teased with a knife?" Uhm I wouldn't. My theory is he has watched a lot of porn but for me I don't need all the extra fantasy talk especially since it's been a short period of time. I understand later on in a relationship trying to spice things up but not fresh outta the gate. Wondering if I should just bail. Any advice grately appreciated. Thank you.
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