I said it in another forum but I'll say it here too because I would have benefitted from hearing it from another guy who has struggled endlessly online as I have over the years. If you are sucking at getting dates from these online apps, trust me, the complaints and science that are coming out about how poorly the apps are functioning now for their stated purpose is true; illusion of choice, ghosting, message abuse, catfishing, and all the other stuff that comes along with it. My fellow guys, you need to get to the gym, stop drinking so much, eat proper portions, start getting 8 hours of sleep, watch videos on youtube on how to dress better, and then just get out and meet people in settings where you have group activities or just places where you can just be SEEN. Get SEEN. Women are just as visual as us men and they notice everything from head to toes. Illicit responses from women by just having normal interactions but being friendly and never expect anything in return. Don't fall into the trap of these pickup artists online either. They are all full of shit. Just get out there, be public and make friends. Your best chances of finding a woman is making a network of connections and building off of them. Meeting A, knows B and B knows 5 more letters in the alphabet where you will likely find the one for you. And to be honest, it doesn't have to be personal connections; it can be work connections too if that's where you spend and enjoy most of your time. Go to business networking events and get those connections. There's potential friends and allies in for dating everywhere. Online dating is such a shitshow that if you feel the same way as me, you're going to do A LOT better by ditching it and putting more time emphasis on the connections you make in real life.
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