I (30F) have been casually dating this guy for the last 8 months. We text all the time, and meet up occasionally. It’s a situation that seemed mutually beneficial and we’re enjoying it. Because of how casual our relationship is and my personal boundaries, we only make out with heavy petting. I refuse to have oral or penetrative sex with him as we’re not exclusive. In our conversations, we’ve shared our kinks and general likes/dislikes. He seems to have a kink for choking. A kink I don’t share, and I made it clear in one of our conversations.
However, last time we were making out, he decided to choke me. He claims he wanted to introduce it to me to see if I’ll enjoy it. So, I got up and left. I was livid. I felt betrayed and violated all at once. Afterwards, he apologized, but I didn’t accept his apology because it wasn’t a complete apology. I eventually told him I’ll never feel safe with him and I broke up with him.
It’s been almost a month and I still can’t get over it. My family is telling me that I’m more emotionally withdrawn. Now I’m wondering if I have been traumatized? Obviously something to sort out with a therapist.
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