I (M19) met this girl (F19) a month or 2 ago and it’s been really nice for the most part. She’s invited me multiple times to go out and do things. We’ve gone on multiple “dates” and we do college classes together and overall just hang out and talk a lot. Like I said it’s been really nice but I have some concerns and I often feel confused at times.
For example we “cuddle” or “spoon” and hold hands. We hug all the time and we’re very physical with each-other. She often initiates it by laying on top of me or hugging me at random times. For me at least I thought that was pretty relationship worthy.
Another example is she basically praises me with compliments. She tells me how amazing I am constantly and even told me she loved me at one point. All of these things in my opinion = relationship. But we’re definitely not in one. She calls me bro or friend all the time and tells me that I’ll find an amazing girl eventually.
At first I thought she was taking advantage of me or I was just one of 100 random ass dudes. However, she lets me have her phone all the time and had me meet her mom. It’s pretty clear that I’m the only dude she’s talking too. She buys me a lot of stuff and gives me rides etc. so she’s not using me for anything. Sooo what gives?
A large part of me feeling weird is that she’s distant sometimes. Whenever we’re together in person it’s amazing and we talk constantly. But while texting she barely ever texts back or takes a day to do so. I don’t really like texting and she doesn’t either but she’s constantly active on social media (really popular tiktok influencer) and takes 8+ hours to respond to my messages?
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