she kept telling me she didn't want anything serious and then revealed she went dated a guy 3 weeks ago. she's back
Just wanting to get people's opinion on this.
Girl I was sleeping with kept telling me she wasn't ready for anything serious. Our relationship was strictly sex and casual hangouts, but i did see myself possibly dating her. I told her it's fine and i'll be around when she's ready. She became distant for awhile and suddenly over the last week or so became a lot more attentive and responsive over message, saying she misses me and how she appreciates the fact I give her space when I think she needs it.
She goes on to reveal that 3 weeks ago she started seeing a guy for a week and she felt smothered by him and she broke it off and began to think of me more and more as a dating prospect, claiming she feels like she's missing out and the only reason she didn't want to was because I apparently bothered her by talking to her in a silly voice from time to time (just something I do) and that was really the dealbreaker.
Now I told her i'm not mad cause of that last part since it's quite an easy fix if she simply communicates to me that it annoys her. What's really bothering me is she began dating a guy for a week when she constantly told me she was far from ready for anything aerious and now she's coming back to me, apologizing and looking to give us a chance.
On one hand, she dosen't owe me anything and she's free to do as she pleases, on the other hand I do feel like i'm some sort of backup plan to this girl or perhaps
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