So I (19M) was with a girl (20F) , we finally started dating , after 3 months of waiting after asking her out. Everything was going well. She was a bit bold. But it never bothered me. Most of her friend's were guys and she would tell me about them. Share things.
I was okay with her having MANY guys as her friends. until one day i found out that she used to sext with one of her guy friends ( one I thought was just a friend cz that's what she told me at first ) , they used to sext when me and her were in our talking stage.
I was deeply hurt , I tried my best to react as less as possible and asked if she still talks to him. SHE SAID YES. I was hurt more than i could tell her , bcz i thought we had something genuine. But she chose to hide these things from me when i told her everything about my past.
I then asked her to stop talking to that guy and cut off the conversation with him completely. But she told me that he was just a friend. ( They used to sext barely 2 weeks before me and her got together). I told her that it's not okay. To me atleast. She fought with me over it. In the end. She started giving me silent treatment which ended up making me feel guilty for being angry and asking her to cut her friend off. So I compromised.
Was I being controlling ?
EDIT: We've broken up now. I later found out that she was still flirting with him after we started dating. She didn't tell me that when we confronted about it.
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