So I had been seeing a guy for a total of 4 months but the last month he left for training in Colorado (we live in Ohio). and I had paid for every single date we have ever been on (5-10) and 4 of those at airbnbs $200-$300 and dinners all $100-150. now i did offer on all occasions because i do believe guys get the short end of the stick in the dating world. so ive always treated every guy like gold like this and its always bit me in the ass like this but im afraid if I stop doing it then guys will think im just like every other girl and a bitch... back to my story, I helped him even drive his car up from florida for 2 days and got off work and got the hotel and food etc too. its really not about the money its more so he continued to let me do it while he knew he was playing me. so we frive his car up he leaves for 2 weeks in colorado and is semi responsive then hes home for 2 weeks and radio silent and I feel like ive done something wrong... well then I get these texts (cant attach and will try to post on my page but he pretty much says im an amazing woman and it's not me it's him and that he met someone suddenly and she's perfect etc.) and a week later he is posting photos with the new girl in florida.... mind u he claims he met the girl of his dreams SUDDENLY in colorado which i could respect but is obviously not the case.... where THE FUCK do good wholesome dudes exist anymore.... im CLEARLY not after money and if you saw the guys I talk to its not looks either... they always seem wholesome and then just BOOM something like this happens every time.... should I start being shallow and go for looks and money? all those girls seem to be foing much better....
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