I've been talking this guy now for just over 2 months and I've been wondering if I should be concerned about how fast he has moved and wants to move. We're not official, but we are exclusive. However it seems like he has pretty much wanted to be an official couple since we met. However I got out of a serious 2 1/2 year relationship only 3 months ago so I am struggling to fully commit at the moment.
For context, we have seen each other pretty much every day since the first day we met as he always wants to see me. I do want to see him a lot too now, but at the beginning I did find this quite intense. On the 4th day after we met, we went out clubbing with his friends and at the end of the night he nearly said he loved me. He said something about how much he liked me and that he didn't wanna say love, but that he didn't wanna be friends with benefits.
When we had only known each other like 1 month he suggested we visit his hometown with the implication that we would stay with and see his parents/family (which is now happening next week). We both are moving house this summer with 1 year contracts, and last night he asked me if I wanted to rent together after the contracts end essentially.
He pretty much only wants to go out with friends now if I'm going. Whenever his friends have invited him out and I say I don't want to, he doesn't go even though I tell him he should. Which I find extremely sweet, but I can't help wondering if it's too intense that he pretty much only wants to do stuff with me. He also always asks me to join him when he has group work for school or stuff like that.
Should I be worried? I really like him, but I don't even know if this is normal or not. I've only ever had 1 relationship, and in that one the guy moved quite fast as well to be fair. However since it was new and exciting to me, I genuinely thought I had found the one and that everything was perfect. Now that I've been heartbroken this isn't as exciting and I feel hesitant to let it happen cause I'm worried it's not gonna work.
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