Been looking at this sub for few days, and obviously dating is complicated but I just wanted to say take a moment if you've had a date and pat yourself on the back. YOU HAD A DATE lol... you had some human being take interest in you, how awesome is that...doesn't matter if short or long lived.
I am now nearing my mid 20s and never been on one, Definitely not for lack of trying. I agree its my fault I haven't been on one: let myself get fat and didn't start lifting and dieting till past year, failed to realize as a minority and shorter guy I need to be on the top of my game all the time, failed to save money in my youth and now am in my masters program broke.
Now it doesnt matter amount of effort its not in the cards: I have 3 dating apps all i pay for premium, working day and night in gym and trying to secure a better future. It doesn;t matter now tho. I am at an age where women want experienced men: mentally, physically, sexually
If anyone in early 20s or younger reading this PLEASE I beg of you start working your butt off from now. If you are under 5'9 or a minority even harder start working. Now the reason I am dateless doesnt' have to do with my color or height but in this world you gotta enhance your skillset.
I'll never be enough for a girl, never be able to cook a nice dinner for her, get to know her, share a life journey its too late for me. I hope this reaches someone in need.
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