Ive posted before but this is like a follow up.. so my girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me but stated she wants to bump it down to the talking stage.. she stated that she doesnt want to see, date, or have sex with anyone else and im her person of interest. she wants to basically reset and go back through and build the relationship from the foundation we already have but as of right now she doesnt want to do anything romantic or in a relationship. the thing is we speak all the time and when we talk on the phone we talk about stuff in the future like owning a house together and stuff. The conversations are pretty genuine which is confusing to me. She also falls asleep on the phone with me whether shes taking a nap or going to sleep for the night... i know that doesnt sound that big of a deal lol but falling a sleep otp is the best you can get when you dont live together so when that's happening it means something is potentially there. But when i ask her about her feelings towards me and the relationship she gets really anxious and says its overwhelming and she cant talk about it right now. She really and truly seems confused to me because she goes back to the same thing over and over then would proceed with an idk. What are y'alls thoughts on this whole thing? I truly do love her and would really go miles to save the relationship.
edit: we have seen eachother before and it wasnt weird.. we spoke like normal and joke like normal.. even in the text messages we joke and talk like we normally do. but when i ask she says she just doesnt want to be in a relationship right now.. even though it legit feels like a relationship without the title. i dont press her about it though because maybe she's truly just trying to sort herself out but wow idk if shes doing this to try to keep me on a chain or if she genuinely wants to reset. Thoughts??
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