I recently met this guy on tinder, about a week and a half ago. Our first date went so well, it was very romantic and easy- we could talk and just look at each other for hours. Second date felt the same, happened a few days later. We’ve talked about our pacing, that we’re both comfortable for now but will do check ins to gauge if we need to adjust.
I feel like I’m too in my head about it already. We’ve had a few emotionally driven conversations about how I feel and how he’s feeling, mostly started by me. I don’t want to keep having that convo because I know it’ll push him away, but I’m equally as concerned that it’s ending anyway.
Tinder dating has damn near scarred me. I form connection after connection only for them to end and leave me starting over. These things aren’t lasting, and I don’t even date anyone long enough to work on myself as a partner.
I really like this person, I don’t want to mess it up but I feel like I already have. I can sense him becoming distant.
Hopefully you all have some good advice, I have a feeling the next few steps on my end are crucial.
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