I (28 F) separated from my son’s (3) father (29 M) almost 5 months ago, however, our relationship was over long before we physically separated. He cheated on me throughout the relationship through dating apps, chats and webcam/chat girls but I didn’t find out until 2020 and stayed to try for my son. I never found any evidence of physical cheating my gut says it did happen.
Since we split, I have my son 100% of the time. I often am alone and miss having adult conversation. I am trying to strengthen relationships with family and friends but I still fantasize about meeting someone one day who will treat me right and be a great influence in my sons life.
My question is how do you go about dating as a single mom with virtually no free time? I know that sounds crazy but I want more kids one day and to meet an honest, genuine, reliable partner.
Would I go through dating apps or hope to meet someone organically? Would I mention I’m a single mom from the jump or would I feel the person out a bit before disclosing that?
I’m a bit extreme, and from personal experience has anyone dated as a single mother and deeply regretted it? I sometimes tell myself I can wait until my son is older to protect him from any potentially traumatic things happening that are out of my control (reason why I left his dad) but a part of me thinks someone may be out there that could be a great addition.
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