So I've (23M) been reevaluating some preferences I have about dating recently and I realized that sex is not something that I'm ever comfortable with doing on the first date, not even after the third date. Maybe it's because I'm inexperienced but that would be too soon for me to feel safe and vulnerable enough with a woman like that. Also, the lack of experience part made me realize that I want to wait longer than expected of a guy because I want to feel desired and cared about.
If you met a guy like this, how long would you wait? Is there a hard limit or amount of dates you'd be patient for before deciding to move on? I'm aware that this isn't what most women are used to seeing as it's usually men trying to fast forward to the sex part with women, and I'm ultimately worried that choosing to wait longer than normal would be a turn off/dealbraker for the women I meet. Is this a fair rule for me to uphold or am I being unrealistic?
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