i went on 2nd date with this guy and it went pretty bad. he was saying that i was being weird just because i was fidgeting and tapping my feet when i was nervous around him. then he proceeds to tell me that i’m too tall for him. (i am a 5’6 girl and he’s a 5’11 guy, imo not that bad). he said he prefers short girls like 5’2 and under, and i have no problem with him stating his preferences, i just thought it was kind of a shitty move to say “hey, you’re not what i’m looking for basically”. next he says that i had such a princess, bratty and childish attitude when i was just being picky about my food? like he doesn’t even know me that well how could he make such an assumption like that.. and then proceeds to tell me that we’re “different people” and thinks that it’s best for us not to date.
anyways, he changed his mind literally 5 minutes after our whole convo. he told me after our talk that he wanted to “try it out” with me. he wanted to see where things would go. and then asks me if we can cuddle. i said why not because i thought it was cute. then he proceeds to ask me if i wanted to have sex with him. and i said “what? why this fast?” i was so shocked when he asked me that because when i asked him if he hooked up with girls he said no, because he needs to have an emotional connection with them. and now he’s telling me he has an emotional connection with me after an hour of talking? honestly i just think that was just some kind of excuse to fuck me. he obviously wasn’t interested in really dating me..
so my question here is how long does it take for you to form an emotional connection? for me it takes around weeks or even months to form one. i can’t just trust anyone yet. but his definition of an emotional connection was literally if we talk for an hour i feel a connection already. idk i just think that’s kinda sus… after this we decided to be just friends but idk i’m still kinda hurt about it because i did like him. so is there anyway that can help me move on… because i feel so bad right now. thanks in advance.. :((
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