So my (17f) friend wanted to set me and her cousin (17m) up together and me and him both agreed that we wanted to so the first thing she did was she made a group chat with all of us. So far it’s been three days and I don’t know it just seems like he doesn’t really want to get to know me or talk to me. He only talks to my friend/ his cousin in the group chat, sometimes he’ll talk to me but it’s mostly to her and I’ll just like pitch in whenever I guess. But when we do talk it’s about my friend like it’s the only thing we seem to talk about. At first I thought he was maybe just shy about talking to me but I don’t know it seems like three days is a little bit long. I mean I’m not expecting him to do all the work in the conversation but like the least you could do is ask how my day was or what my favorite color is I don’t care he just hasn’t asked me anything about myself it’s kind of making me wonder. He has never had a girlfriend so I’m maybe wondering if that’s why he’s so slow about wanting to have a conversation with me. I’ve never really had a boyfriend but I’ve talked to guys before. Yesterday I asked how his day was and all I got was a “good” and then another conversation just continued and I was just like uh okay then. The main point I trying to make is that It feels like he’s not making an effort to get to know me or even really talk to me. I’m not the type of person to just randomly start talking about myself that’s why I’m just wanting him to ask me things and wanting him to want to know about me. I’m trying not to overthink it because it’s only been 3 days but it’s just weird to me.
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