There is this lady that I met sometime ago ! Great first contact and our communication was flawless I felt that I conquered her as she dumbed one of the people I know to be with me ... Things went quick we had good dates but she did not want to have sex as she needed time for that. I totally respected her situation and let her know she can take the times she needs to be confortable with that.
A week ago she was travelling with some common friends and I wanted to spend some time with her alone before that, but she was busy and I had to wait for like 1 hour for her ( that bothered me as it was the second time she makes me wait) knowing that the time I had at that moment I wanted to spend it with her not with her friends.
I got angry and let her now that, when at the moment I saw that she got emotional so i just asked her to go home without further explanation.
After that intercation and the travel things went south, no contact and no night calls as we used to have for the past week.
When she came back I explained to her over the phone the reason of my reaction , I study and have two jobs at the same time so waiting for me is a huge loss of time.
When I saw her IRL, again same thing she has something to do. This time I did not want to to get angry I just kissed her and let her know to contact me later that night when she finishes. She did not I called her once and no reply so I did not try to reach her more.
Now it has been almost a week and I feel bad losing this girl, I started doubting my actions toward her from the start as she reproched me many times that she thinks I am some kind of playboy and only wanted to get her in my bed and ditch her. But that was never my intention.
I have to admit that many girls have the same impression as I like playing with them and like beeing flirty. I do that though only with the girls I like, but in general I am more the laid back type with sometimes lame jokes,but thats my nature.
What makes more sad is that she is always around the area where I live , as she has a friend that is pretty much my building neighbour, sometimes i will be just be out at the balcony and i will hear her voice laughing or talking. It was casual for me to just show up there she is when we were close but now i stopped doing that after getting ghosted and I did not ran into her yet.
Anyway, for me breaking contact over that small thing is not a good reason so. I want to fix things up with this woman but I do not know the right approach to do so. I do not want to call her or text her. So AT This point I am lost
I have the option to move on and live my own life but this lady got me bad ! I tried today to get close to another woman that showed me intrest but I couldnt even open up to her as she is on my mind.
Please redditers any good suggestions or advices on how to deal with the hole situation ?
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