Long rant story time for those who wanna read and give their opinion on it, it’s really hanging over my head.
So I matched this girl on tinder years ago but we never met and eventually unfollowed each other. We just recently matched again and started texting again. We finally met and from the start first date went great. Second date we did some light trespassing on a beach and drank which was such a fun night we vibed very well. We’d also text daily. And I just really liked her vibe she’s not an innocent damsel in distress. She’s a really pretty girl who knows how to jump a car or change a tire and has a backbone. Hard to explain. Either way loved her vibe. Third date I met up with her and her friend at the bar and once again we had so much fun. That night she came up with the idea that we go to her upstate place for the week because it was gonna snow and it would be fun. So we spontaneously packed and went the next day. We were supposed to stay Monday to Thursday or Friday. Drive there was fun, good vibes. Monday was a blast and Monday night we vibed super well got drunk listening to old music. Tuesday was fun for the most part during the day but at night I got too drunk while she was barely drinking. After we made dinner and started watching a movie she started getting sleepy and talked about going home Wednesday if it’s gonna rain and I was really drunk so I got upset that she was falling asleep so early and talking about cutting the trip so short. I’m not gonna sugarcoat it because I want actual advice. I threw a drunk tantrum saying this sucks I regret coming let’s go home etc. I never insulted her or anything but I definitely acted out of place like a baby. The alcohol really was the driving factor. She started packing saying let’s go now then I started to apologize telling her how I rlly like her and I fucked up. But she barely replied she refused to talk about it more than a few words. So we eventually just awkwardly lay on opposite sides of the couch till we fall asleep. Next morning she’s quiet and packing up early. But as I stop mentioning the night before she seems to be more open to talking. She let me ride the quad for a bit before we packed the car and eventually left. it seemed like in the car there was hope of fixing it because she was being friendlier initiating conversation about tv shows and high school and commenting about things in the town that we passed. It felt normal again for a few minutes. Then later in the drive it just went back to her being kinda quiet and uncomfortable. I drop her off we say goodbye after I help her unpack. I sent her a short apology which she didn’t respond to. Later she unfollows me on snap and insta and she tells me I creeped her out and to leave her alone.. this just left me feeling so shitty bc I actually really liked her and we vibed so well. I don’t get why one 10 minute drunk fuck up is enough to make someone look at you completely different and want nothing to do with you. She hates emotional apology shit so I really was trying not to be mushy gushy with it. I just don’t know if there was a better way to go about this after the drunk tantrum.. Is there something I can try to remedy this down the road? I know the default answer for most ppl would be to let it go, it it’s so hard to do that especially knowing it was because of a stupid drunk tantrum that could have easily been avoided. I know it sounds silly but she’s the type to block anyone who annoys her, and all she did was unfollow my stuff. Idk if that means anything or I’m just being too hopeful.
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