So there is this guy, we've been flirting for some time now or let's just say that we've been getting to know each other and we're hitting it off. We said that we are going to hang out and that we will talk about when. He didn't reach out for a couple of days and I was like let's just leave it and he was like nooo, we agreed on a day but said that we would talk again today to make sure, well today came and he said we'll talk tomorrow. I don't like this situation, I feel like he doesn't respect my time cause I'm like waiting for a text (like we are both adults) and I was thinking maybe he's just doing it out of kindness like "yeah we should grab a coffee or something" but then again I offered him a way out and he was pretty adamant about not cancelling. We talk normally it's not like he's avoiding me or something but this postponing really annoys me, and not just on the level that I like this guy, I guess it's basic decency.
The worst part is that I still want to go out with him, or at least go out to clear the air about everything (there are some matters we need to clear out but in order for that to happen we have to have some one on one time without interruptions) .
Why is he doing that? Am I just overreacting and he may just be chill about the whole thing and I am seeing it as something more than it is? But even if that's the case why the constant postponing? It's just not kind I guess.
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