I've been dating someone only two months but we've known each other for about a year. There is really only one major red flag, but it's really a big deal to me. And it's his greasy hair. The thing is, he doesn't smell bad to me. He has his distinct scent which some people have but it's not bad. I'm pretty sure he's consistent with showering but just not with washing hair.
I thought maybe he used product but I really don't think so, because it always looks the same to me. He has one of those hairstyles that you slick back so it's easier to somewhat disguise it. Before me, he had a long term gf 3 years ago and I can pretty much pin point why he hasn't dated anyone in all that time. We are good friends and I stand by that, but hygiene is such a sensitive subject. I even told him the other day I had to go home, take a shower and wash my hair cause it's greasy. It was sort of a hint to maybe get him to think about his own hair.
It's really bothering me but I don't want to embarrass him. I've even gone so far as to check out his family members on social media to see if they have the same problem. Nope. It's just him being gross. I Know mental health is not an issue. Any suggestions?
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