hey guys, serious question: I’ve always been a tomboy & most of my friends are guys. However I’m also Girly at times. Recently I feel like I’ve become close to a co-worker. We’ve always been friends but he had a girlfriend so we kept our distance, as of recent we’ve talked more and he’s opened up to me about family/ past etc and trauma (which I know is a lot for some men bc most aren’t vulnerable). He’s also stated these are some things that his ex didn’t know.
(Side note: I’m also very approachable and find myself in situations where sometimes someone I barely know will just break down crying in front of me- I think it’s because I’m empathetic? Maybe. But I do find myself in this predicament often)
I’m usually easy-going and get along with everyone usually calling my friends ‘babes’ ‘sweetie’ ‘baby’ ‘honey’ everyone knows this. It’s just words of endearment for my friends and I. As of recently I think he’s picked up on it so I’ll catch him reciprocating & saying it back. He’s only like that with me tho. he’ll also compliment me here & there. He’s called me a 10, joke when I say stuff like fuck you he’ll say ‘when?’ etc. He also doesn’t bring up his dating life as often. Im usually cool with my co-workers but very introverted & disappear to b alone most times. He’s quiet like me and usually knows where to find me when no one else does.
Whenever I’m down to do an xtra shift he’s d always down to stay with me no hesitation. Whenever I want lunch he always pays no hesitation, recently he’s also giving me rides and remembers small details. Like the way I like my coffee, smoothies & specific orders. Previously a LONG time ago I had asked him for a ride & was told it was out his way. I lost my car recently and now he doesn’t mind? Now I get car rides almost everyday & we usually sit and talk a little. I think he gravitates towards me, tries to take the same lunch break- takes personals to catch up / chat. He also started playing the phone games I play & everything. He watches the shows I watch and everything.
My thing is - do you think they like me? Or am I looking into this too much? I don’t wanna confuse someone just being a genuinely good friend or liking me. I usually get compliments at work & so does he. People already also call us a work couple, and they’ll accommodate us to have the same lunch break, or sit next to each other and whenever I play off people’s assumptions he doesn’t.😧
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