So I've been meeting him for 4 months (and that's how long I've known him for). We'd meet once a week on average. It was good at the beginning but after some time he turned out to have some views that bothered me (feminist hate, weird attitude to gay people/people dressing up in an alternative way, mansplaining, always proving me I'm wrong, being critical of me) and I just couldn't fall for him, even though I tried, so I decided to end it. I've never considered it as some kind of love relationship, more of the phase when I get to know him, so I decided to inform him via message, as I didn't want to waste his time making him go to the centre and giving him a false hope for a date just to tell him 'sorry but I don't feel that'
Ofc he was sad, he asked me if I wanted to cut the contact off and that he was sad I wanted to do so. I just told him it will be the best way (I really believe it's better for him, even before there were some situations when he'd ignore me telling him I'm not comfortable with something he says to me, so I think he might think he still has any chance). He tried to prolong the conversation but I cut it. And then the circus started
Fortunately, it isn't a very bad circus. It takes place mostly in social media - fire emoji reactions to my stories, unfollowing and following me back for several times, yesterday he even texted me on facebook to apologize for unfriending me and to tell me I can add him if I wanted to with no hesitation and he won't be mad if I didn't respond (yeah, and a day after that he did the unfollow-follow shit again). Ofc I didn't add him again, I want him to move on. I feel weird because, for me, 4 months of knowing someone isn't that much and he seems to be acting just like I truly broke up with him. We didn't even kiss, as I refused him to do so
Should I do sth about that? Or just ignore him?
TL;DR: dude I've been meeting for only 4 months but I broke it off keeps doing weird stuff in social media and I don't know if I should react or just ignore him
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