I (25 M) was in a long relationship, on and off, for 3 years. We had great chemistry in the bedroom, but everything else was not so good. Anyhow, as the relationship started to crumble I figured it was going to be over soon so I thought it would be best for me to do my master’s abroad, somewhere exotic and sunny where I could at least get my mind off of things and move on. However, that never happened and although I made a ton of friends and had one of the best years of my life, I slept with one girl once and it wasn’t good, my fault mostly. After that, I decided to throw myself into studying and focus solely on my career. I pursued a second master and did a whole array of extra curriculars and internships which kept me awake from 5am until midnight every day for a whole year. I got into a very competitive job and I’m happy, and now that have time again I have given dating a second try.
I am now going on a second date with this pretty, smart, fun, sweet, kind lady who is just wonderful! I don’t wanna rush it, but we are hitting off but I’m worried about how our chemistry is going to be like, mostly because of me. I haven’t done it in a long time and it’s starting to make me nervous which is going to make it worse.
How did you guys go about it after a long ‘dry spell’ or breaking up after a long term relationship?
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