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Do I hold out hope to reconnect in 2 months?

My hookup situationship crush fwb of whatever you want to call it and I just decided to take a step back from our relationship and put a pause because of the summer (we’re in college). We hung out last week while I was visiting our college town to see some friends and we ended up parting ways bittersweetly before I came home for the summer. Conversations were normal for the first two days then slowed down for another two before I got the dreaded “we shouldn’t talk constantly if we aren’t going to be able to see each other until the fall I hope you understand”

Of course although I agree being a long distance no commitment situation would be worse, I was already planning a check in but he beat me to the punch and kinda put a dramatic pause. I voiced that it was a little blindsiding since we didnt get to talk about it together even though I agreed with the sentiment and he apologized for the sudden shift and said we’ll see what happens in the fall. He reassured that I’m a good person and there’s no hard feelings (which is true on both ends) and I thanked him for the honesty and apology and left it at that which he hearted.

I’m just wondering how cracked is the door we both just left, I’m thinking to let the dust settle for the summer because we had a great connection and then see if it feels right to reach out in the fall. I think it’s just bad timing that we have a long while before seeing each other and it honestly would’ve ended up in some sort of breadcrumbing situation if we dragged on just texting/calling since we agreed to casual. We have an overlapping friend group and live in the same building so it’s not insane to think we wont run into each other.

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