Sorry throwaway account cause I get paranoid. Curious if this has happened to anyone else. I (30F) have on a number of occasions had guys tell me how much they like me and how into me they are very early on. Obviously that’s nice to hear but overtime I’ve learned that they don’t actually like me, they like an idea of me that is in their head and then after a few months of being myself I can tell I’ve fallen from this pedestal they put me on and I could never be as good as the idea they had.
So now it’s happening with a guy I’m getting to know and he’s telling me how much he likes me and how picky he usually is and for me alarm bells are ringing- so I try to say like just try to get to know ME! And it’s early on so let’s keep getting to know each other. I could tell he has taken it the wrong way and thinks that I am not into guys that are overly into me so then he needs to pull back. But it’s almost the opposite ? I need it to be consistent because I don’t really believe you.
I don’t know how to go about this situation and if I should have said anything at all? Advice or similar situations would be appreciated
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