So,
I want to get people who don't know us' opinion on whether or not I should tell my best friend about my feelings. I usually am pretty upfront about everything in life but my friend is a pretty anxious/ sometimes awkward guy and I'm really afraid that he may stop talking to me if I tell him about my feelings and he doesn't feel the same way.
First I know the age difference is significant but it doesn't really show that much, he looks max 35 years old.
So this guy and I met at work, we no longer work together thought.
We met at work and at first he hated me, eventually he got to know me and now we are extremely close. It started with me looking for conversations with him by messaging him on our work chat pretty often and making conversation, I'd always be the one starting the conversation. Then for a work function we exchanged number and again at first it was me making the first steps to talk until eventually it started being back and forth with him starting conversations with me about random things.
Him and I have so much in common we love the same shows, music, books he's extremely intelligent and I love the way he stimulates my brain. The minute we start talking it doesn't stop he often came to my desk and spent hours disrupting my work because he was making conversation. Once he saw me eating a specific type of chips so every month he brought me a bag as gift.
I'm trying to figure out if all of this is out friendship or if there is a chance that he likes me too.
I mean we message until 3 am sometimes (we're both night owls) we have stayed outside of our workplace talking for 2 straight hours after our shift ended and it was great but he's never asked me out so I don't know ...
what do you guys think am I friend zoned or what?
Just thought I'd try to get some strangers' advice, hehe.
Cheers!
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