I've (F/29) been seeing a passive introvert(M/32) for almost 2 months. I have initiated all meet-ups but one. I used to always text first as well but recently have been getting little texts from him here and there first.
I have brought up the meet-up initiation thing before and was quickly asked out again (the only time, actually), but after that, we went back to me initiating.
When we are together he tells me he likes me and always tells me he had fun with me afterward. The dates we have are very long and intimate and almost always include me spending the night, including once spending the whole weekend together. When we are together, he'll talk about future date ideas but has never initiated any of them lol
I am also the one to initiate kissing and having sex, but once we get intimate, he's completely on board and is VERY cuddly and kissy. He also looks into my eyes and smiles, which just adds to the confusion on my part.
I have NEVER dated a passive man so I am very confused. In society, we are generally told that lack of initiation from a guy means he's doesn't like you, so that's kind of ingrained in me. While I don't mind initiating things( I really, really like him) I worry that I'm being clingy or annoying.
Any thoughts?
TLDR; I am dating a passive guy who I have to initiate all dates with and now I'm worried I'm being annoying or clingy.
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