So basically for 2 years now i have had this friends with benefits, i personally had feelings for him and wanted to date him but he was adamant he had no romantic feelings for me and rejected me every time i tried.
He moved to another city a while ago and i booked flights to go and see him on friday. Now i have always been honest with my fuck buddy and he also tells me he sleeps with other people. He also encouraged me to go on dates but im an introvert so havent. I have also checked in multiple times with him and every time he said he had no feelings for me and only wanted non exclusive fwb.
I hung out with another male friend the other night, told my fwb i was going to beforehand and he just said dont have sex and its fine. so i didn't have sex or do anything sexual however we did cuddle while watching a movie. I tell my fwb this because i am truthful and he loses it, tells me not to come and see him, so i just wasted hundreds of dollars on plane tickets and accomodation (i pay for everything when i see him). And he is swearing and saying its a deal breaker that i did this.
I am just so hurt and confused, can someone please explain this all to me. So he doesnt want to give me any love or affection, hes allowed to fuck other girls, but the moment i cuddle someone im the bad guy? and he hasnt even acknowledged how much of a financial burden cancelling this is going to be on me.
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