Have any of you guys fell in love with someone you hooked up with and if so did you tell them, did you end up seeing them again or not?

Just interested, I have hooked up twice before in the past with other people and it was purely sexual between the both of us. Recently I hooked up with a guy I had been talking to on Instagram on and off for about two-three years, I hadn’t had sex in three years and really wasn’t sold on hooking up with anyone. But when we spoke it felt right, and after a while he began asking me to come see him. It felt right and gave it little thought, usually I wouldn’t do it. I felt like it was the right thing to do. I spent the night and we had breakfast at his, he told me to get home safe and to let him know when I got home. I messaged him not expecting him to reply - but he did and we spoke for a week after. About two weeks passed and I decided to reach out to him and he was receptive, and I hinted at possibly seeing him again and he told me he wouldn’t give up the opportunity. But we are both busy until January so have no set date, im taking what he said with a pinch of salt and not holding my breath. Before we met we would talk about all kinds, it wasn’t just purely sexual or flirtatious so it’s hard to know where his head is at. He was engaged to be married about two years ago now and think he’s just getting back into dating also. I didn’t ever outright tell him what I expected and regret not doing that. Annoyingly ever since I’ve not been able to stop thinking about him, because whilst we hung out apart from the sex I discovered we had a LOT in common which was nice but also freaked me out a bit. We still follow each other on social media, he watches my insta stories but has stopped liking my posts . Is it wise to let them know how you feel or is it time to just get over it. Usually id have no problem moving on, and even though I’ve been dating other people he’s still in the back of my mind, I hate that we had that much in common. Guess it would have been easier to detach if we didn’t .

Would love to hear your experience and advice.

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