Should I double text? Weird situation (28f) (36M)

Gonna try to cliff notes this:

• last Wednesday I met a guy (36M) at a bar, I went home with him
• we hung out at his apartment drank some beer and danced a little
• we made out
• he carried me to his room and we tried to have sex but he couldn’t get it hard enough (it was also 5am so understandable)
• so we gave up and then cuddled
• he told me he had a meeting at 9:30am before we fell asleep and I set my alarm for 8am and he saw and asked why so early and told me to do 9am and mentioned breakfast
• we got up around 8:45am and he told me I snored (😭 inside thought, my man)
• he said he was gonna take a shower and I took that as my cue to get ready to leave so I quickly got ready to leave and then he came out of the shower and was surprised I was dressed
• he told me it wasn’t a race and I could stay at his place and take my time if I wanted (insisted a few times) but I said I wouldn’t really do anything there so no point
• we went outside and he said “what should we do?” And I shrugged then we exchanged numbers and he said “see you soon” and then kissed me goodbye
• two days later I sent a WhatsApp message asking how his meeting went and to this day no response, it’s been a week
• my friend’s fiancé says to text again and her brother says he might just be busy to reply bc it’s free sex

My issue is I feel like he would’ve replied if he was interested? But I’m also confused. Honestly I’m a bit insecure, because I hadn’t expected to hookup with someone so I hadn’t shaved my legs in like two days 😭 and also my underwear was not super cute.

Is it worth texting again and just say I just want to be direct and say I had a nice time and I’m down to meet again if you’re interested but if not, totally fine?

I have BPD and I don’t handle rejection well and it eats at me and I also don’t want to come off as desperate.

Like the movie He’s Just Not Into You, I feel like if a guy wants to contact you, he will, and if he doesn’t… he might just not be that into me.

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