I am having severe difficulties with this. I have been told many times to join groups to meet people. I don't feel good doing this. It feels disingenuous and kind of creepy to join a group of people doing an activity they enjoy just to see if you might hit it off with one of them. First and foremost, it feels wrong and creepy. I don't think this is a good way to meet anyone. Secondly, it's obvious when someone is doing this and those aren't people you usually want to hang around.
I've given it a shot and end up leaving to do something else that I actually enjoy and don't feel like I am some creep looking for prey. The only problem with this is that the things I enjoy are not social activities and there is literally zero chance I'll meet anyone doing them.
I've tried online dating and it is strange. It feels very synthetic and dystopian. I found it was actually really depressing. I also don't put my information on any online profile unless absolutely necessary.
I have no real reason to be around people. How do you just hang out without any real reason and where? I am having a hard time with this advice and any help would be much appreciated.
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