Would it be okay for me (25F) to ask him (24M) if I could come over to his apartment and cook him dinner for third date? I'd offer to do it at my apartment, but I don't have a couch and I want to make out with him afterwards (I feel like a couch would help with that).

For our second date, I went over to his place and he cooked me dinner, and then we cuddled and watched netflix. I want to make sure that I'm reciprocating by being the one to put in most of the effort of organizing this date, but I also want to get more physical on this date. I feel kind of weird inviting myself over to cook dinner at his place and I feel bad for making him host again (even if I would be planning the meal and providing the food), but I really want to make out with him on his couch and I don't have a good space to do that in my apartment (maybe my bed? But that might imply escalating things faster than I'm probably ready for). We could also eat at my place and go over to his place afterwards to make out, but that seems kind of complicated and awkward.

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Edit: Okay I ended up getting a couch. I realized that I wouldn't feel confident having people over in general if I didn't have a comfy place for us to hang out, so I went to a cheap furniture and got a super comfy (small) loveseat that fits nicely in my apartment. Thank you everyone for validating me - I was getting nervous because I really like this guy and want to make a good impression, but now I see that I was definitely over thinking things.

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