I’ve started dating again, and about a week and a half ago, I was working at a bar where I had a nice chat with a really cute girl. During the evening, one of her friends came over and asked if I’d give her my number. I hadn’t really thought about it like that, but I said yes, and we exchanged numbers.
A few days later – we hadn’t been texting that much – I invited her out on a date. Unfortunately, I had to cancel on the day because I got sick. We still didn’t text much, but one night she suddenly texted me and said she wanted to sleep over. I wasn’t feeling great, so I initially said no, but I ended up saying yes because I liked her, and it was hard to say no.
I drove over and picked her up. We spent the night together and hooked up. The next morning we talked a bit, and drove her to her friends house in the morning. It was actually pretty nice – we got a little time together, and she gave me a goodbye kiss before leaving. I thought: “Great, this seems to be going well.”
Later that week we texted a bit, but she was busy with a concert and other stuff that weekend, and I had to work, so we couldn’t see each other. Still, we had agreed to meet up the following week.
On Saturday evening, I got off work and had two tickets to the same concert she was attending. My friend couldn’t go, so I texted her to ask if she was still there. I mostly wanted to see the artist, but I also hoped to maybe catch her briefly. She didn’t respond to any of my texts or calls the entire night.
Later she messaged saying she was sorry and hadn’t seen my messages or calls. Fair enough – she was probably busy and drunk. I replied to that, but she didn’t write back.
Two days later, I decided to text her again and ask if she’d like to go out on a date – just to see if she was still interested. But now she hasn’t replied at all. It feels like she suddenly lost interest and just doesn’t want to respond anymore.
And this is exactly what I hate about dating – the uncertainty, when people just stop replying. It makes the whole thing feel really difficult.
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