Let me start off with, I am not good with guys, I have never been in a relationship, and honestly, I don't think I ever will, even though I want to, but that's another fun story for another timeI have been texting this guy for a few months, and things seemed to go very well, he is the first guy that I have been meeting up with this many times, and even though it has been physical every time, I am confusedIn the beginning, I was fine with the only sleeping together part, but the more we talked, and the more times we met up, I started to imagine, which is a dangerous thing for me, because once I do, I ruin everything, I like hanging out with him, and it seems he likes or liked hanging out with me too, the time before this one, we even planned out on going mini-golfing (his idea), almost as if it was a date, but it got postponed, so we just went on a nice walk together, and honestly, one of the best days yet.I am confused because there have been situations where it felt like he liked me too, and then there has been situations where it only felt like it was just for adult time.I am not looking for a relationship right away, but I am looking for some in the future.But I am scared I have ruined that chance, let me just say I am giving him a bit of space, I feel like I have overstepped some of his texting boundaries, or so I assume, because he seems very distant lately, still answers me when he is able to, but it somewhat feels it has changed.My head makes me confused because I can't seem to think if this is just a situationship, if its something that could turn into something or could have, or if it's just a fwb type of situation, lately my intuition has been wrong this entire time I have been talking to him, so I don't trust them at the momentI don't even know if I like, like him yet, or if it's just my head telling me, that he is different from the others, because he has met up with me so many times, or if it's because I have been so comfortable when he is around, or if it's me that has started to imagine how I can spend time with him without the adult time, too much overthinking.I am scared, or neouvs, every time I look at my phone I hope i get a message from him, and get dissaponed if not, all these things.
If he still wants to continue our contact, I am going to ask him at some point, what he is looking for, when I get the courage to do so.
Anyway, sorry to those who are getting a headache reading this post
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