Long story short, I got into a kinda of casual situation with a guy 2.5 years ago when I wasn't looking for a relationship. I didn't want anything more, even though we have really good sexual chemistry, and have good chats/flirt/respect etc. We both clearly struggle to bring up hard conversations (he is reserved and I know he is working on his own stuff/tryna adult). But now the past month, I'm realizing I'm moving more into a place in my life where i'm looking for more (generally - not necessarily with him). i know I like him, but he doesn't show some parts of himself so it's hard for me to know if I actually like him in reality (and in a partner sense) - I'm a bit confused. Anyways, I want to and am always confident (when by myself) that I'm going to try to be more vulnerable with this guy and test the waters to see where his head is at, or just like what we are doing. I'm not here trying to profess my love cause i don't even know fully how i feel ,I just need some clarity. But then when we hang, it feels so good and I just can't find a way to bring it up. Does anyone have any advice or even ways I could casually bring it up without making him think I want more/am in love with him (cause I don't/am not) - just looking at the potential of it.
thank you!!!
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