I (20F) went on a first date with this guy (25M), everthing seemed really well we joked about a lot and the date lasted 8hrs. What I'm nervous about is we seem to have very diffrent attitudes towards sex, I've never been intimate before past making out and I don't intend to until I'm in a definite relationship.
I mentioned this to him after we kissed and he hinted at it before joking it was more of a 3rd date thing, to which I admitted that although I've been on a few dates I've never been in a proper relationship so I've not done anything like that yet.
He said that he was glad I told him and that we just need to make sure we communitcate but at the same time he also said stuff about how he doesn't think sex is such a big deal, admitted that he likes a lot of sex and that he was worried I was gonna say I was asexual cause he had an asexual girlfriend before and apparently it was a pain. He then went back to making jokes about me coming to his flat.
I'm just a bit anxious, I don't want to put myself in a situation where I feel pressured but I'm also worried that maybe I'm self sabotaging as before everything seemed really great and I was having a good time.
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