I’m going to do this long story short lol. So I (F24) was seeing this guy for two months, we’ll call him R(27) we started dating shortly after that. A few weeks after us officially seeing each other, I got a message from his ex girlfriend lmao, she was texting me and telling me that he’s been messaging her since him and I started seeing each other. She sent me screenshots of it, he was telling her he still loved her, I wasn’t even a thought in his head , he even invited her to a hockey game a few days after we made it official lol. I gave him so many chances to be honest with me too if he was still in contact with her, or if he wasn’t over her, and he said no each time. When it finally came out, he didn’t understand how it was cheating?? He didn’t see it as cheating? When I asked him why he was doing all this, he told me it’s because he hated seeing her depressed, didn’t know how to cut contact and just wanted to give her hope to eat the next day. If you’re deleting messages from your current partner, how is that not cheating? Like i just genuinely don’t understand. Emotional cheating is still cheating is it not..?
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