So essentially I feel that I don’t have much going on in my life, I’m not interested in dating anyone or seeing anyone I’m really content being single for now. But I miss that feeling of having a crush on someone since I’ve been so disinterested for so long - I guess this manifested over time and now I am starting to fall for one of my colleagues. He’s so incredibly handsome and I never noticed it until I had to speak to him directly about something and all of a sudden my heart was racing and my hands became clammy and all that..
Now whenever he walks by my office he always looks through the window (which I happen to be facing) and catches my eye or if I’m looking at my computer screen I would catch him having a glance and walking off. Other people who walk by (which is a lot) don’t usually do this at all. Other than that I feel that this crush is manifesting from practically nothing besides a few conversations and pure boredom since there is no other interesting man around that catches my attention. Recently I had to email him to do something and didn’t get a response but then found out that he ended up doing it and my mind went into over drive.
Point is.. we are simply not compatible - he is physically handsome but he also has this intimidating aura about him since he’s in such a high position at work. We have completely different lifestyles and I think this crush is getting out of hand simply because it is manifesting out of nothing - barely any interactions at all, we’ve maybe cracked a joke once or twice as part of a small talk convo and that’s that. Other than the window thing, there’s no indication that there’s anything between us.
How do I stop this crush please?
I really don’t want to send myself down this spiral. When I’m actually dating/in a relationship I don’t get crazy consumed but when it’s a crush, my mind goes into hyperdrive about the possibilities and building up this fantasy in my head and I feel that this is the last thing I want to do in regards to a coworker who happens to be painfully attractive :/
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