Met this guy online. He and I were talking everyday and we went on two dates. Things were going well although all the sudden his response to text was slowing down so I figured he lost interest and probably met someone else. Then he ghosted on me. I was disappointed, but moved on.
Fast forward about 4-5 months later he reached out and was apologizing how he ghosted & said wanted to explain what actually happened. I said it’s fine and no hard feelings.
We eventually met up and he was trying to explain what happened. I wasn’t too curious although let him to explain. He said he went through a serious relationship before meeting me and emotions towards her were still lingering and at the same time found out that she lied to him and yadayada.
I said it’s fine, shits happen, but I told him I didn’t really appreciate how he didn’t really had respect towards me at that time. He was genuinely apologetic and testing water to see if I’d like to see him again.
Now I have a mixed feelings. I told him no matter what happened he didn’t have that much interest on me therefore ghosted. He said it’s not true that he wasn’t interested and he regret it. Honestly him ghosting on me didn’t impact me as much before as I thought he’s just a douche. Now I feel little weird as i did have a good time when I met him, and he maybe actually changed.
Some say people never change. I know the answer; either try him out or call this bullshit. I’ve never re-met a guy who ghosted on me before nor gave them second chances. I’m not sure what the best thing to do- just wanted to vent it out. Thanks for reading my long story.
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