This girl that I've known for over a year, where we only texted for most of it had just moved back into town and we have been hanging out A LOT. I know that she is very invested in me and wants to date, but I have insisted that I want to keep things casual, because I am not sure that I have as strong feelings for her.
She is a nice person and cares about me, but I don't think I want to be with her long term. I don't think I want to break it off either, because she will be wrecked. idk what to do.
My issues with her, despite her commitment to me, is her lack of job and realistic life goals. She is a user and never has money. Her parents drink a lot and don't support her at all. She has made really irresponsible decisions with money in the past.
She insists that she is going to go pro in a sport that I know nothing about. I don't see how this is realistic, but get's really angry when someone says otherwise.
She gets made when I bring up my issues, by saying that she has a job now and that she works hard.
She is not college educated (I have my BS). The reason this is an issue is because she says that my parents funded my education, like it's a bad thing. And she has no goals to further her education, even though this is something that I value.
She says that she wants to marry me and that she will wait for me, but I just can't see myself marrying her.
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