This is mostly out of curiosity, because its a scenario I’ve seen play out a handful of times, so here goes.
Why do girls enter and stay in relationships with some guys when they can clearly do better?
Now, before everyone downvotes me, let me explain. For example, i know this really pretty girl who’s in a relationship with a guy who is way below her league in terms of looks (yes, i know looks aren’t everything but still) and doesn’t seem to have much personality.
She rejected him the first time he asked her but then eventually he asked again and she said yes. Now they’ve been dating for almost a year.
The guy worships her but he always needs attention and / or validation from her. So she has to deal with constant texts / calls / face times, the entire thing. And like at that point im not sure if that bodes well for that relationship in the future.
One more example (ill try to keep it shorter) :
Another girl i know was with this guy and all the did was fight, ever. It literally became a joke to say “oh, what are (x) and (x) fighting about now?” Everyone knew from the start that it wasn’t working but it took her 2 years to actually see that and end it.
So what I’m saying here is, why do girls enter relationships with certain guys when there are clearly better options out there (ex : a guy who wont badger the first girl with needy stuff 24/7 or a guy who wont be fighting with her all the time)
I assume its because some people get so caught up looking to make something work that they fail to see certain red flags or problems, and i know everybody has those.
Ive never been in a relationship like that myself, so i struggle to understand, so im not looking to fight or anything here, just a little insight on how these kind of things work. Thanks.
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