I'm straight but everyone thinks I'm gay.
I'm quite good looking as people say. They also say I'm a great companion with my honest but gentle nature, dry humour and empathic hearth.
I wouldn't say I'm feminine though. In fact many of my former relationship companions described me at first in a way I call "too cool to be in relationship guy" attitude. (which is kinda accurate when I think about it as I don't have a lot of relationship exp and I don't like doing something I'm not good at publicly). Also I'm ex-military and ex-firefighter, which I don't share a lot with new people, but my friends like to introduce me that way. Yet even after that, most women I meet this way still think I'm gay (and they usually ask several times my female friends about that).
I don't hit on women I like when I first meet them, even if I like them I just don't show any sexual / relationship related interest at first. Most of the time it's at the party and life has taught me that it's either trying to chase girls or enjoying the party so I go for the second one by default. When I know I won't see the girl anymore though (like in the subway) I don't really mind asking her for her number.
I don't evade women. I just act naturally around them. Just enjoying the party or meet-up together. Laughing, dancing, talking, drinking. Sometimes a hook up happens but that's almost exclusively related to us both being drunk.
I just don't what is it that makes these girls think I'm gay. I know it's kinda hard to tell from a few words on reddit, but I'd love to hear your opinion on this.
..and maybe an advice on how to gently push forward in conversation that I'm not gay 😁
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