Hi everyone, first time poster, long time reader. On mobile, no formatting, etc. TL;DR at the end
I (30M) met this fantastic woman (28F) and we hit it off right away. I mean, date 1 turned from meeting for coffee at 5pm to talking the night away and driving her home at 2am. Date 2 ended up being 11 hours. The chemistry is amazing, the click happened, and maybe it's too early, but I can see an amazing future with this woman.
She is fully aware of my relationship history, and I'm aware of hers. I let her know I've had trust issues with other women because I've been badly burned in the past with lack of communication. And she solves this because she's straightforward and blunt, maybe too blunt.
Here's where I can't vocalize my problem. In my mind I have this inherent feeling that if I say one wrong thing, I'll get burned again. And it's a feeling I can't shake, no matter what I do. She's said multiple times she likes me and wants to continue dating, and I do too, but for some frustrating reason I have the notion that she's just gonna metaphorically pack her things and just up and leave.
What is this feeling?! Is it trust issues? Fear of commitment? Anxiety? It bothers me that I can't pinpoint what it is. She's fantastic, and all signs point to go, but I can't shake the feeling that I'll say one wrong thing one day and it'll all be over.
Thanks in advance to those that read this, many thanks to commenters, and everyone take care of yourselves
TL;DR: OP has something too good to be true with someone, and the magic is obviously there, but OP feels like if he says one wrong thing, it will be over. What is that feeling?
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