I gave up dating apps a couple of months ago because I just wasn’t finding anything worth while. I was bored and recreated my FB dating profile and started talking to someone and then I was just done and decided to delete the profile again. Well, as luck would have it, we both are interested in talking and have some similar interests. We are supposed to hang out tomorrow and he is supposed to call me tonight.
However, he has depression (and as do I, so I know the stigmas and such) and I’ve been trying to get him to talk to me because I know I’ve been depressed and wanting to isolate and that has only led me to lose relationships and drive people away from me.
I’m really sad about this because we were really helping each other a couple of times and he’s just in a funky mood rn.
I am super honest about what I want and how I’m feeling. It can be problematic and I can tend to get ghosted/blocked because I get too excited sometimes in terms of getting to actually have conversations with people again. I hate it.
He hasn’t ghosted me yet, but I have a strong feeling he’s not going to respond to me tonight and is going to cancel on me tomorrow.
I know depression is the problem not the person but it pisses me off to no end because it makes people miserable without any explanation.
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