This year has been very emotionally challenging for relationships with my bf of many years. We were together for almost 4 years but several months ago we even broke up and I moved out from him and we were totally single people.
During that period I started missing physical intimacy a lot and there happened to be a situation of a quick sex with one guy. (It wasn’t initially a hookup, but ended up to being way basically). I asked not to communicate after it because I felt that sex happened too fast and was ashamed of it.
Time passed (several months), I got back in relationships with my long term boyfriend and we are building things up, but we turned out to be in the same group of friends (friend aka colleagues) with a group of people where my hookup person is persistent as well. I pretended that I’m meeting him first time in my life, he did as well. He doesn’t show or tell it to anyone (at least what I know of) but it’s extremely awkward.
I didn’t tell my bf about that because we both had some affairs during the time when we broke up and we prefer not to discuss it in detail.
However, the sex with a hookup guy was very good and seeing him again gives me a very good memory and I can even feel some excitement when seeing him. But I morally don’t feel correct in this situation, and at the same time I can’t explain to my bf why I don’t want to hangout with this group of people (everything else is just amazing there)
What do I do? Escape? Forget? Talk? I truly don’t know
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